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CBT & ballbusting safety
Testicles are sensitive, and that’s the point. They’re also fragile, so go slowly and stay well below your limit.
Start gentle
- ·Begin with holding and slow squeezing, then light fingertip taps.
- ·Use a 1–10 pain scale. Beginners stay at 5 or under, and the receiver calls the number, not the giver.
- ·Work up to kicks and spatulas only after you’ve played with hands and know each other’s limits.
Kicks & implements
- ·Kicks: always barefoot, top of the foot, swinging from the knee. Never with shoes, never a full-leg swing, never a knee.
- ·The receiver kneels or stands with knees apart, so the kick lands from below rather than pinning anything against the body.
- ·Spatulas and paddles: flat silicone or leather. Avoid wooden or metal edges.
- ·Stop at the first sharp, deep or sickening pain. That feels different from sting, and it means stop.
Avoid
- ·Anything tied tightly around the testicles or penis for long. If the color changes or it goes cold, remove it immediately.
- ·Twisting, or pulling hard at an angle.
- ·Post-orgasm torture with dry hands. The tip is extremely sensitive after cumming, so use plenty of lube or spit, and the safeword ends it instantly.
- ·Playing while either of you is drunk or high.
Go to the ER if
- ·Severe pain doesn’t fade within about an hour.
- ·There’s swelling, a lump, bruising that spreads, or nausea and vomiting.
- ·One testicle sits higher than usual or at an odd angle. This can be torsion, which is an emergency.
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